E, lá está, tristezas não pagam dívidas.
" I was often taken to the cloakroom and shaken by my second grade
teacher, who left fingernail marks in my arms every time; she lost no
opportunity to catch me in a mistake and ridicule me in front of the
class--”and you think you're so smart!” ...And as my mother said, when
she refused to take my part and go to the school to defend me, “You let
your eyes show how you feel about her and what she does--so what do you
expect?”"
Isto
deve ser muito doloroso [digo eu]: "My mother never wanted me to feel
superior, so she always told me that I was not terribly smart, just good
at taking tests. Perhaps that explains why I had such a distorted view.
My mother told me, as an adult, that she didn't praise me [as a
child] because she thought it was obvious that I was outstanding and she
didn't want me to get a swelled head."
"The
theme of strangeness and loneliness ran throughout the case studies.
During the formative early years of school, most of the gifted children
learned that they did not seem to fit in and that something must be
wrong with them.
At
least half the subjects did not discover until adulthood that the
oddness and alienation they were feeling were due to a difference from
their age-mates in intellectual functioning."
"Abstract: A reasonably clear perception of self appears to be one
prerequisite to advanced emotional development. For people who are
outside the norm in any significant way, as gifted people are, obtaining
accurate feedback about their abilities, strengths, weaknesses, and the
acceptability of their personality characteristics is difficult."
Aqui
Preso por ter cão e preso por não ter
Labels: Artigos, Deborah L. Ruf, Gifted, Links

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