"As I grow, I learn. My desires from a relationship have changed over the
course of time. Now I no longer want someone who says they would be
with me forever, and I no longer want someone who says they would never
leave me. I am not looking for someone who is always neatly dressed up,
or wears shiny shoes, or has an amazing sense of humour or has great
guitar playing skills. I am not looking for someone who has the false
sense of love, and thinks that love is
finding that one perfect person, or someone who is trying to check items
off their list while they search for "the one". I want someone who
understands that "the one" is a fairy tale, and though fairy tales do
happen in real life, they take much more work than the Cinderella
finding her prince charming by walking into a party. Every fairy tale
ends with "happily ever after", I want someone who realizes that the
"happily ever afters" are a lot of hard work. As I grow, I have learnt
that the physical traits matter less and less and loyalty and undivided
attention are the most important traits in a relationship. I don't want
someone who sugar coats everything, and never gets angry at anything. I
want someone who is raw, and real, and tells me how it really is. I am
more interested in someone who realizes that sometimes life happens and
sometimes things don't work out. I want to be able to make a
conversation with them, for four hours straight, and not feel bored, and
not feel unwanted and not feel like they are not listening. I want
someone who wants to know how my day was, always. As I grow, I have
learnt that privacy is important, and there is only so much time that we
all have on this earth and only so many people that we can spend it
with. I want someone who wants to spend their time with me as much as I
want to spend time with them, any less is just not good enough. I want
someone who admits that they really like my company rather than playing
games, alas, modern dating, games have become the norm, and I don't have
time or patience to play along. As I grow, I have learnt, that I am
complete by myself, and I don't need anyone to define my existence, but
you can make me so much better. I want to be stronger with you, and grow
with you, together, and individually. To tell you the truth - no, I
don't need you - but I really want you. And all of this, that you
realize that we are two very different people, and that we are just
starting to know each other, and that we might not work out, and
everything else about our relationship, makes me think that this might
actually work, that we've got a pretty good shot."
Shivee Chauhan
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